“I’m fine thank you, and you?”

Polite communication after divorce is not rocket science. Here is a sample: Q: "How are you?" A: "I'm fine thank you,  and you?" R: "Fine, thank you."  Polite and responsive. Poor communication (mean, rude, snarky and virtually always non-responsive) is sometimes…

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Vog

Vog is the worst. It hurts your head, drains your energy, and for many people, makes breathing difficult enough to head to the hospital.  The winds die and the gloom descends; pollution that is full of sulfur dioxide and other…

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Can one person stop the fighting?

There really is nothing more difficult than preparing for a Family Court hearing while at the same time trying to settle the same case. Settlement is about bridge-building. Going to court burns every bridge you've ever built. Settlement is about…

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